Posts Tagged ‘responsible parenting’

Project X: not one of those movies for the Pinoy teens

by xarki, on Thu, Oct 25 2012 | No Comments

courtesy of filmint.nuEach one of us must have gone wild and crazy during our high school days. It is that time when people join peer groups, fall in love for the first time and yearn to prove themselves to gain fame and approval among their buddies.

 

It is also the time when teens start to go free and get frenzy!

 

Life’s events like these are sometimes the usual subjects in films. Parties with teens imbibing in booze, drugs and creating a lot of noise – a reflection of what most American adolescents experience and sometimes dream of doing and the movie “Project X” is one of those films featuring all of the things mentioned above.

 

The Filipino peer group may have thought of the same but our culture and religious lineage has kept us in celebrating at a moderate level , though I am not sure of the present condition of our youth. I trust on Filipino households to morally take responsibility in honing their kids.

 

I do not say that Project X is a bad film. It is one great film if shown to the right age group or exhibited with  proper guidance. It will be very alarming for parents like me if my teenage son would see this film without understanding the context of the story.

 

Stories have always been used to impart not only a message from its author but also to leave a lesson for its audience to ponder. I hope every Filipino adult could be responsible enough to show the younger generation films like this!

RH Bill is Pro-life

by xarki, on Tue, Aug 14 2012 | No Comments

courtey of wordliz.comThe ratification of the RH (Reproductive Health) Bill is one of the trending issues facing our country today. The Catholic Church is immensely against the passing of the said bill but the Filipinos are divided on their views regarding the legislation of this new law.

 

It is possible that majority of us would simply decide to vote against it and antagonize the approval of the said bill. Without reading the contents of the new act, one would think (especially the Catholic faith) that it would encourage immorality among the people. Teaching sex education to our kids in school and the open distribution of artificial contraceptives (such as the condom) will promote premarital sexual relations among young adults – less value for self and less respect for women.

 

Pondering on the reason why the Catholic Church is greatly against it, I decided to search for better information so I would know my stand on the subject.

 

The RH bill does not force anyone to use any form of family planning method including the choice between natural and artificial contraception. Neither does the bill keep Filipino families from maintaining a strict number of children.

 

The bill in its wholeness provides full protection for women against unwanted pregnancy and eventually abortion. It is in totality pro-life.

 

The bill being a solution for overpopulation will barely take effect. The growth of families will surely depend on every Filipino regardless of age, political view and religious affinity. Our liberty to choose accordingly plays an important part in population control. Premarital sex issues can be controlled only through proper guidance by parents to their children and education both from the church and the state. Truly, responsible parenting will somehow prevent immorality issues.

 

What really is disturbing is the allocation of funds for the programs that will entail the implementation of the RH bill. The bill “may” become another source of government infidelity and another means of having the nation’s fund go down the drain.

 

Evidently, I support the passing of the bill. Controlling our booming population is a key to the progress of our country. The RH Bill is worth a shot to somehow create a balance in our society. We can’t support life if we do not have enough resources for our population to survive. I just hope, the government will work hard to do their job in realizing the contents of this bill.